Very well said David...............
As I look back on my sons wrestling
career I have been proud of everything that he has accomplished. He has
learned to work hard and enjoy and respect the sport itself. This will take
him to the next level in wrestling and life itself.
As parents we need to realize that
if they don't enjoy it at 11 they aren't going to be doing it in high
school, and that is what it is all about.
The one thing that I have always
believed in wrestling more than any other sport is that you have to learn
how to lose as well as how to win.
I am sure that there have been
moments when I have got on Tyler for a certain match, and I am not proud of
that. The one thing that I have learned is that you need to be supportive in
the losses as well as the victories.
Last year, his Senior season, Tyler
had more than his share of physical problems. Things weren't going the way
that he had planned for his senior season injury wise. He was never 100%
throughout the season but went on the best he could. During his Quarter
final match he lost a close one that I feel he should have won, as did he. I
felt that maybe he overlooked that match looking for a rematch with Johnson.
When he came into the stands I knew that he was devastated by the defeat and
I was concerned that he was going to be one of those that doesn't come back
and just throw in the towel. We had a little talk about what things meant
not only for him but his team and he went on and redeemed himself by beating
that same kid he lost to 5-0 for third place.
For this I am probably more proud of
than anything he has accomplished.
The one thing I truly believe is
that you need find that fine line of when to push your kid and when to hug
and support them. I never enjoy losing but in this sport there is only one
winner.